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View Poll Results: Should the Mom be charged for hiring a stripper at her son's Sweet 16th?
Yes! 17 68.00%
No! 8 32.00%
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29-May-2005, 05:22 PM #1
Wrong or Not?
What do you guys think? I'll post later, I've got chores to do.

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Sun May 29, 5:48 AM ET

NASHVILLE, Tenn. - A mother faces criminal charges after she hired a stripper to dance at her 16-year-old son's birthday party. Anette Pharris, 34, has been indicted by a grand jury on charges of contributing to the delinquency of a minor and involving a minor in obscene acts. The boy's father, the stripper and two others also face charges.
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"I tried to do something special for my son," Pharris said. "It didn't harm him."

About 10 people under the age of 18 were at the birthday party in September, including minors who were not related to the family, authorities said.

Police spokesman Don Aaron said minors are not permitted in adult establishments.

"A person shouldn't be allowed to circumvent that law by hiring a stripper, a lady who took all her clothes off and spent a good amount of time dancing around minors," he said.

Anette Pharris took photos at the party and tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Drug store employees notified authorities, police said.

"Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?" the mother said.
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29-May-2005, 05:53 PM #2
A resounding YES from me, Strippers are an adult "entertainment" (if you can call it that) and most certainly not for viewing by children. He may be 16 and legally able to engage in sex, but he is not 18 and is not an adult.

*EDIT* I misread the question and voted no when in fact I mean't yes. I'd be grateful if a mod or someone could change my NO vote to a YES. thanks.
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29-May-2005, 05:59 PM #3
i'd wanna no more before i vote....while personally, i think its a dumb idea, if the OTHER parents were aware of the stripper and gave their consent (which i believe to be highly unlikely), then i feel the mom is right....keep the gov out of the house....it just ain't none of their biz
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29-May-2005, 06:19 PM #4
Illegal is illegal. If ya allow one law to be broken (because it's in your home), ya gotta allow 'em all (drugs, prostitution, etc.).

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29-May-2005, 06:26 PM #5
She's guilty.
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29-May-2005, 06:36 PM #6
As a parent i would have not did this to begin with....my thoughts are what was she thinking....Its hard now days for us parents to try to raise our kids correct....with all the drugs and beer and everything else out are door at home...I don"t drink or smoke and i sure don't use drugs....but i have a full time job just keeping up with me own kids about drinking and smoking and drugs.....I"m just a concerned parent.....I want my kids to do good in life...she is GUILTY....
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29-May-2005, 09:19 PM #7
Providing adult entertainment for minors is a crime. She has no moral values and is a poor example of motherhood. All of them deserve what they got.
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29-May-2005, 09:23 PM #8
Yep. You all have said it for me.
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29-May-2005, 10:26 PM #9
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Originally Posted by iltos
i'd wanna no more before i vote....
the rest of the story and the link is below.

Saturday, 05/28/05

Mom indicted for hiring stripper for son's birthday

East Nashville woman says 16-year-old is 'very mature'

By IAN DEMSKY
Staff Writer


An east Nashville mother said yesterday there was nothing wrong with hiring a stripper to dance at her 16-year-old son's birthday party.

A Davidson County grand jury felt differently, indicting her and four others on charges of contributing to the delinquency of a minor and involving a minor in obscene acts.

"It's a bunch of bull," Anette Pharris, 34, said yesterday afternoon in an interview at her east Nashville home. "I tried to do something special for my son. It didn't harm him."

From the family's front porch, which sits on a small street off Dickerson Pike near Hart Lane, her children have witnessed prostitutes with customers, people injecting drugs, smoking crack and doing other misdeeds. A naked woman was nothing to get upset about, Pharris said.

"Age is just a number," she said. "My son is very mature."

Metro police officials don't agree that hiring a stripper for a minor's birthday party is just harmless fun.

"We don't think the Nashville community is ready to allow adult entertainment in the form of a nude dancer around teenagers at a birthday party," said police spokesman Don Aaron. He noted that minors who were not related to the family had attended the party.

"Minors are not permitted in adult establishments in Nashville or anywhere in this state," Aaron said. "A person shouldn't be allowed to circumvent that law by hiring a stripper, a lady who took all her clothes off and spent a good amount of time dancing around minors."

About 30 people were at Landon Pharris' 16th birthday party in September, about 10 of them under the age of 18.

"We even had grandpa there," his mother said.

Landon's mother said she had to contact several companies before she found one that would agree to send an adult entertainer to a minor's birthday party.

Cassandra Joyce Park, 29, who police say used the stage name "Sassy," danced for a few hours before "the guys" took up a collection and paid her $150 more to fully disrobe, Landon's mother said.

Park and her escort to the party, Jeffrey Scott Harper, 35, were also charged, along with the owner of the entertainment business, Kirk Anthony Yates, 37, police said. Harper declined to comment through a friend; Park and Yates could not be reached.

The birthday boy's father, who's also named Landon Pharris, was also charged.

The excitement might have ended that night if Anette Pharris hadn't taken photos at the celebration and then tried to have them developed at a nearby drug store. Many of the pictures were taken by Anette Pharris, police said, but once the dancer's "bottoms" came off, she retreated into the next room and her then 14-year-old son, Brandon, continued documenting the action.

Everyone who was indicted knew that the stripper was being hired to dance in the presence of minors, police officials said.

Anette Pharris said yesterday that she was coming up on her 18th wedding anniversary, "so I must be doing something right. Who are they to tell me what I can and can't show to my own children?"

"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone," she said.

Mom indicted for hiring stripper for son's birthday
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29-May-2005, 10:49 PM #10
Alright, Mom!!!

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29-May-2005, 11:10 PM #11
A crime? That's a joke. Her morals are not my morals, but y'all act like we don't have bodies! Or should look at a naked one. Big deal. Puritanical Amerika sucks.The cops are self serving busybodies. And can you imagine! Photos! an open and shut case! I'll bet the developer had a ball showing them to the pharmacist. Phooey! It wasn't a party for 3rd graders.
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29-May-2005, 11:13 PM #12
The whole thing is ridicuous----She is an idiot, but an indictment---Obviously the DA was never your typical 16 year old---The kid's testerone's are raging so Mom figures what the heck. More puritanical nonsense.
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29-May-2005, 11:40 PM #13
*shrugs** i can sorta see where you are coming from... but still...
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30-May-2005, 12:09 AM #14
I don't know about anyone else, but I would feel kind've uncomfortable with my mom hiring me a stripper...
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30-May-2005, 12:11 AM #15
Dont worry--I'll hire you the stripper!
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