Durbin working through his grief 
Posted December 1, 2008 6:15 AM
by Jill Zuckman
This should be a joyous time for Richard J. Durbin (D-Ill.), the assistant Senate majority leader.
And yet, the Saturday before election day, Durbin and his wife, Loretta, were at a Washington-area hospital as his eldest daughter, Christine, 40, succumbed to a congenital heart condition after weeks in intensive care.
He missed the jubilant celebration in Chicago's Grant Park for Barack Obama's historic victory, watching it on TV instead. And he missed his own victory celebration as staff in Chicago phoned him in Washington with the voter returns.
"It hurt because it was something that I had dreamed of, and it was just a magical night," Durbin said of the raw elation he saw in Chicago on election night. But, he said, "I was where I needed to be: with my family."
Friends say Durbin, 64, is quieter and more reflective these days. His staff says he has reminded them to stop and remember what's most important in life.
The day before Thanksgiving, Durbin was in his Senate leadership office on the third floor of the Capitol, plotting out the legislative agenda with staff and talking about the road ahead as the balance of power in Washington shifts dramatically to Democratic control.
"Getting back to work for me is therapeutic," said Durbin, who spent the holiday in the capital with family.
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