hi benny bumble......i have a d-link router. although i should've mentioned that i did get a software with the router, after installation, the speed dropped dramatically. so, i just use it more like a splitter, where i plug in the incoming LAN (from the modem) into port 1, and the outgoing LAN cables into 2 and 3. so, dont know if the router's hardware firewall is actually working.
As for the spyware issue, i know it sounds like i have a lot of antispyware softwares, but the thing is that only spyware terminator and spybot s&d are actually working in the background. i use both because one of them always misses a few threats (not 'cookies' kind of threats, but trojans) while the other detects them. As for the on-demand scanners, i just use them when i suspect an infection.
Thanks for all the info though

. Appreciate it
So, can anyone recommend a good firewall in my situation (if u still think i need one that is

)? and i've tried comodo v2, had it for a long time, but had huge problems installing v3 (had to do a system restore in safe mode because of it).....