Keep your Mcafee Security Center if your Dad likes it. I suppose it has antivirus, antispyware and other features that remain useful. Since windows file sharing is allowed on the product and things still don't work, then turn off the firewall feature and buy a good hardware firewall for Perimeter defence. ( like Perfume says ) The concept of a Perimeter Defence is that it separates and protects you from the outside internet. A perimeter firewall will protect your shared folders and keep private network things private. It should be supplimented with firewalls on each PC, since only a firewall running on the machine knows what the programs are doing, so you should re-enable your Windows firewall.
The bare mininum is a feature called Stateful Packet Inspection or SPI. This will only allow return traffic from the internet and it watches and knows which sites you went out to. The second feature would be a rule editor, where you specify things like forwarding FTP traffic to your FTP server machine. This is also the place where you can narrow down what is allowed outbound, for example web and ftp download requests. This way should you ever get infected and the thing trys to IRC home and join a botnet, you will be protected. Then comes other features like blocking various malformed tcp/ip packet attacks, warning you of port scans, and banning various protocols. There's usually also traffic priority settings, that allow you to prioritize and alot, for example, a preset bandwidth for your VOIP phone connection, your ftp/web server etc. So these services won't be starved or overwhelm the rest of the network. Most will also have a True DMZ network, which allows you to separate high risk public server machines (or your brother's virus loaded machine, ha) so that, should they be attacked, it wouldn't infiltrate your private network. Some also have optional subscription based email antivirus protection.
These brands all have products aimed at small networks ( which is what you have ), SonicWall, Checkpoint's Safe@Office, Watchguard. Expect to pay around $400 USD. There are less configurable and fewer featured brands like TrendNet, Dlink and Netgear ( but should all have SPI ). Expect to pay around $200.