Well... DDR3 is approaching DDR2 prices. A year ago, 4GB of DDR3 was about $200~300.
Nowadays, 4GB is about $70~120. An AM3 motherboard is going to cost about $20 more than an AM2+ (DDR2) version.
Then when it comes to DDR3, you really want to get the lowest latency you can get... which is 6... 7 is okay. 1333mhz is fine.
DDR3 - latency 7:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produc...e=&srchInDesc=
DDR3 - latency 8:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produc...e=&srchInDesc=
DDR3 - Latency 6:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produc...e=&srchInDesc=
Looking at the scoring... as the latency gets lower, the issues tends to go up - typical of tight timings. At CAS 8, the GEIL are scoring high.. compared to CAS 6 & 7. Also look at the DDR3 compatibility list from the Mobo website and the requirements. Such as speed and voltage.
Going with DDR2 with an AMD... either 800mhz for flexibility or 1066 for a tad better performance. I'd say, 800mhz. DDR2 800Mhz is about $40~50.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produc...e=&srchInDesc=
In a few years... you'll want a new motherboard anyway. In mid/late 2010 - Motherboards will be USB3, PCIe3, SATA3...

The first boards will be expensive.
DON'T buy the 4890... Especially since your STILL saving today.
The 5850 & 5870 cards will be out any week now... cost less and twice as fast.