Hi preacherpaige, and welcome to TSG.
What video output type(s) do you have on the DVR and what kind of video input type(s) do you have on the DVD/VHS recorder.
The best transfer would involve using component video, like Y/Pb/
Pr. The next best quality would be using S-Video, followed by composite video. You would need another set of connections for the stereo audio.
NOTE: If the original program creator did not wish to permit recording the program from the DVR, the DVR may add a copy protection signal to the video and the DVD recorder may refuse to record the program to disc.
I have no idea of what you mean by a "reflective attachment" between the DVD recorder and TV.