My mom hasn't gone off the deep end and I don't have to pay for my own food or anything, but she has been (mostly) making me do my own laundry since I was about twelve or thirteen.
I loathe it, honestly... generally I wait till I'm wearing my last pair of clean underwear before I put in another load.
But I do it, lol, and I'm okay at it.
Never EVER forget to put detergent in it, because then your clothes will reek and you'll have to do it all over again. *says that from experience*
Next time you go to the store, see if you can buy either a box of disposable color catchers or one color catcher rag good for thirty washes (preferable but hard to find). If you do that, then you shouldn't have to worry about colors much... wth that I can wash red shirts with blue jeans and green shirts and blue shirts and I don't have problems.
But always wash white things separately with just whites (and maybe a pair of khakis), no mater what color catcher you have. And never wash new blue jeans with any color that's not close to blue.
And you have to fill up the machine with water first? That's weird. You shouldn't have to do that... next time watch your mom somehow to see how she accomplishes that... or something. I've never had to fill up the machine with water before, so I can't help you much on that front.
Wash socks and underwear in hot water when you can. It's not a necessity, especially if you're washing them with other things, but the hot water does a better job of killing germs and whatnot and makes them cleaner.
Read the label on something before you toss it in, and if it says machine wash cold gentle cycle dry flat... then machine wash cold gentle cycle dry flat. Don't try to toss something delicate in with a load of blue jeans and then dry it... doesn't work that way.
You'll learn from experience more than anything.
Good luck to you.
