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Originally Posted by AKA Arizona Absolutely our kids grew up in the 90's and 00's different times, I tried to raise my kids in a similar fashion as my parents raised me but the day my son came home from his 4th grade class asking me to take one of my guns to school so the boy with the knife would quite picking on him was the day everything changed. |
I think that says it all. We grew up in a time when the worst kind of violence we 'usually' saw or got was a fist fight. Kids today have access to so much more....long before they even have the wisdom to use it for right or wrong.
I realize just from working in the schools at how little todays kids are taught about what they do see on TV or from other children that, IF they had a parent at home to teach them, would know that knives or guns or any sort of violence is just plain wrong.
I can remember not being allowed to watch more than one hour of TV in one day and certainly NO TV on Sundays. The rest of the time we were out side playing. My back garden was the local schools hang out, were we would build tree forts and, as mentioned, make mud pies. The laughs we had from falling out of trees or seeing who could get the dirties was priceless...our kids today have just video games and IF they do play outside then usually you'll here after about an hour, "I'm bored, can I go and watch TV or play whatever video game." That's usually when I send those kids home. My own son is given limits on technology but no limits on how long he wants to play outside, and usually, thank goodness, he choses to be outside, either on his bike or in the pool during the warmer months or making snow forts in the winter
But, you can't blame what we didn't have VS what they have,...you can only blame yourself as the parent and what you allow your children to be like. I think parenting has changed, not the amount of 'toys' one has. I think people don't spend as much time being there for their kids any more.
One more thing.... what was missing in that first post:
We sat at the dinner table every night, together, as a family; Todays kids grab a plate of food and then plant themselves in front of their own TV with their door closed while mum and dad do the same with their TV.
Families are a rare thing these days because we have made excuses as to why we 'can't be THAT way. " OH but I work," oh but my butt

...so did our parents and they still had time to set limits for us.
...in the mean time...
* throws a mud pie at Dave*
