I am having trouble

with a form which i need for a jewellers web site. i need the form to do two things.
(1)send an email to jeweller to design the ring with all the relevant information about the ring they want designing.
(2)send relevant information and the buyer to worldpay to pay for the ring.
here is a link to the code that i have designed with dreamweaver
http://www.multilan.012webpages.com/
(ORDERFORM FOR JEWELLER)
SHANKMETAL TYPE OF METAL----mailto:so@so.com
MENU1-5 \ /
PRICE1
HEADMETAL + TYPE OF METAL----mailto:so@so.com
MENU1-5 \ /
PRICE2
CENTREDIAMOND + SIZE OF DIAMOND---mailto:so@so.com
MENU1-8 \ /
PRICE3
SHOULDERDIAMOND + SIZE OF DIAMOND---mailto:so@so.com
\ /
PRICE4
=
PRICE OF RING PRICE OF RING------mailto:so@so.com
RING SIZE + RING SIZE -------mailto:so@so.com
MENU1-26
+
POST AND PACK \ /
PRICE5
=
TOTAL AMOUNT TOTAL AMOUNT------mailto:so@.com
/
/
(PAYMENT AT WORLDPAY) /-------/ \
/
HIDDEN FIELD AMOUNT-------https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
HIDDEN FIELD CURRENCY-----https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
HIDDEN FIELD DESCRIPTION-https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
HIDDEN FIELD CARTID-------https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
HIDDEN FIELD INSTID-------https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
HIDDEN FIELD TESTMODE-----https://select.worldpay.com/wcc/purchase
Right i have sorted out the calculation of the price
but i need the form to send the email to the jeweller with the metal types(not the price of metals which it is doing) without asking confimation about revealing email address.
the next thing i need the form to do is to proceed to worldpay with the information to process with there creditcard details.
Any information would be much appreciated

because im banging my head against the wall
as i dont understand java
