I'll start with the story. I separated from my husband and started dating a guy in Spetember 2002. He was still married but his wife had taken his son and moved out of state in July 2002 (wanted to be closer to her family). My divorce was final on April 1, 2003. He says he loves me and we get along great. He is having some hard financial times, but he hasn't made any effort to get a divorce. He swears the only reason is because of the money. (he went to see his son a month ago and spent the money he has saved up. he hadn't seen him in 6 months). Now here is where I need advice. Do I stay with him, give him a time limit on his divorce, or leave him? I love him and his family, I just have this hang up over the divorce! I don't feel like we can move forward with our relationship if he is still married. He is great with my kids and family, I just don't want to be the "other woman" forever! Please help! I need an unbiased opinion! Thanks!