I have a computer with win 95 which i want to connect to a computer that runs XP. I have a feeling there might be something wrong with the cable as there both straight through cables with a crossover box. How do i make win 95 find a connection because XP seems to have done it easily.. how can i get some form of icon in the system tray to find out if its connected or not cos from what i can tell win 95 isn't connected and dosn't know that it is connected.