Solved: Age of Empires 2 The Conquerors PLEASE HELP!!!

Hi, I have been trying to do a multiplayer on Age of Empires 2: The Conquerors via LAN, but it has been giving me trouble. I have two computers, one upstairs and one downstairs, connected via a Linksys wireless router (please refer to my specifications page for more info about the router). Both computers are running Windows XP, and I am using two copies of the game, both of which are legal, and are the same exact version. Whenever I try to host a game with one computer, the other computer simply CANNOT detect the game. This happens no matter which computer is hosting. I have tried many different solutions that I've found via googling my problem, including selecting IPX in the game's multiplayer menu as opposed to my normal selection of TCP/IP or Local (LAN) TCP/IP. That didn't work. I also made sure I had completely deactivated all of my antivirus and firewall programs, but that didn't work either. (They are all back on now, though, but I can turn them off if I decide to try that solution again). Also, I have Age of Mythology: The Titans expansion, and I tried doing a multiplayer on that right after trying multiplayer on Age of Empires The Conquerors, (using the LAN setting) and it worked perfectly fine. The computers are both on the same wireless router. I am REALLY hoping someone can help me solve this problem!!! I don't really want to use any of the various online AOE multiplayer game hosting sites I have heard about, I just want to do a simple LAN game. My experience level is intermediate, but if you could put your solution in layman's terms that would really help because I'm not really THAT good at understanding really complicated computer terms and such. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you.

 

Just an FYI, if you notice that I'm offline, don't worry, I'm just going to be playing some single players on AOE2 TCE for a while, but I will check back later. Thanks.

 

If you mean chat on the game, no the computer that istn't hosting the game does not even show the other computer in the list of available games. If you mean something else, I'm not sure I understand what you mean, so could you please explain what you mean by "network places"? Thanks.

 

Okay, I know how to get to My Network Places, but once I'm there, what do I do to check if the computers can talk to each other? Thanks.

 

Sorry about the lack of paragraphs. What does NIC stand for? By the way, I need to go to bed now, and I will be gone most of the day tomorrow, but please let me know anyways, because I will be online when I get back. Thanks.

 

IPX/SPX is there, but it still doesn't work.

 

By the way, in case you're wondering I am actually going to be home all day today, because my brother got sick so I'm staying home in case I get sick too.

 

They do seem to be connected.

Age of Mythology: The Titans Expansion does work to do multiplayers via LAN, so I think they are connected just fine.

I am having trouble finding the part of My Network Places where I should see the other computer, though.

When I go into My Network Places, all I see is an icon that says, "My Web Sites on MSN". If I click on "View Network Connections", I can see an icon with the name of the wireless network. Is that the thing I should be seeing, or am I looking in the wrong place?

I can also click "View Workgroup Computers" on the sidebar on the left side of the window, and I see an icon there with my computer's name on it, but not an icon with the name of the other computer.

Both computers do have the IPX protocol in their "My Network Connections", though.

 

Okay, the other computer is there for both computers.