winmx please help!

I am at my wits end. I downloaded winmx 3.31. When I go to connect it flashes yellow and says connecting. The problem is I have no idea what they are asking me when I set my "settings." I dont know anthing about TCP incoming, outgoing or any of that. I used to use the older version of winmx with no problem before uninstalling it. I have tried clearing all versions, including the tray. I have an ancient windows 95 that I am using and I have a cable internet connection. If you can help, PLEASE post or even email me at [email protected]. I guess all I need is for someone to "walk me through" the settings. I didnt have this problem last time.